What does RSVP mean?
By the MakeTheRSVP team · Updated June 2026
RSVP is one of the most common lines on an invitation, and one of the most misunderstood. Here is what it means and how to reply.
The meaning
RSVP stands for the French phrase 'répondez s'il vous plaît,' which means 'please reply.' On an invitation, it is the host asking you to let them know whether you will attend.
How to reply to an RSVP
Reply as soon as you know, and before the deadline if one is given. Say clearly whether you are coming, and answer any extras the host asked about, like a meal choice or how many in your party.
- Reply yes or no, do not leave it open
- Respond before the deadline
- Include plus-ones or meal choices if asked
What 'RSVP regrets only' means
'Regrets only' means you only need to reply if you cannot attend. Silence is taken as a yes. A plain RSVP means the host wants to hear from you either way.
Where RSVP comes from
RSVP is short for the French phrase répondez s'il vous plaît, which translates to 'please respond.' It has appeared on invitations in English for well over a century, which is why it stays in French even on an English card.
Because it already means 'please respond,' writing 'please RSVP' technically says 'please please respond.' It is so common now that nobody minds, but that is the quirk behind it.
Common RSVP phrases and what they mean
Invitations lean on a handful of set phrases. Knowing them tells you exactly what the host needs back.
- 'RSVP by [date]' means reply yes or no before that date.
- 'Regrets only' means reply only if you cannot come.
- 'RSVP requested' or 'the favour of a reply is requested' is a formal way to ask you to respond either way.
- 'RSVP with meal choice' means the host also needs your entree selection.
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FAQ
What does RSVP stand for?+
It stands for 'répondez s'il vous plaît,' French for 'please reply.'
Do you have to reply to an RSVP if you can't go?+
Yes. A reply either way helps the host plan. Only skip a reply if the invitation says 'regrets only.'
What does 'RSVP regrets only' mean?+
It means you only need to respond if you cannot attend. If the host does not hear from you, they will expect you there.
Is it rude to RSVP yes and then not show up?+
Yes. A host plans food, seating, and cost around your yes, so not showing after confirming is poor etiquette. If plans change, tell the host as soon as you can.
What does 'the favour of a reply is requested' mean?+
It is a formal, traditional way of asking you to RSVP. Reply yes or no by any date given, the same as a standard RSVP.